Beautiful Nollywood actress, Genevieve bared it all in an interesting interview
How does it feel to have risen this far within so short a time?(Smiles)
I’m trying to handle it as much as I can. It feels fulfilling. I feel
I’m having the best of my time. I feel the Lord is with me. I feel I
have been able to make an impact on people and I have a lot of fans and
I’m enjoying my life. It feels good.
To what or whom do you owe all that?God’s gift, talent, determination, pride…
What do you mean by pride? They say it goes before a fall. And now you are saying it is responsible for your success?You
have to have pride to be able to stand the crowd, you have to have
pride to be able to stand the intimidation and arrogance of people.
Especially people who feel you have to pay dues to get to where you are
going. You have to have the pride and stamina to tell them boldly you
know what you are doing; they didn’t bring you to the industry, you will
leave when you want to and you leave because you want to.
Where do you want hope to be in the next 10 years?In
the next 10 years, I know I will be married with kids. But I think it
all depends on what God has fashioned out for me. I know I will still be
in the entertainment industry or the fashion world or whatever.
What do you like most about stardom because it appears you don’t want to tell us about your love life?
The
fact that it opens doors for you is what I like most about it. You walk
into a place and every other person is queuing up for one thing or the
other, they just start to recognize you. Oh! come in, come in…It’s
actually a door opener for us or for me. It has brought respect,
especially when you do what you are doing well. What I hate most about
it is the price that we get to pay for stardom – negative publicity, the
untrue scandals; actually, the only thing I hate about it is the bad
press.
What will you say is the worst story ever written about you in the press?So
many bad things. But the one I hated most was the one of Fred Amata and
I, which I don’t know where they got it from. It hurt me so much. It
was not just fair.
How do you feel anytime you read negative things about your person in the media?
Certainly, I don’t feel good.
What if the stories are true, but maybe you were not expecting it to be published?
It’s
rarely been the truth. Maybe a bit of it, but that’s not how it
happened. The press never tells the story the way it is. It’s usually a
bit from here and a bit from there. For a very long time, they have not
written anything true about me.
How did you come into the movie industry?
I
have been acting since I was eight in Ripples. That was how I got into
acting. For movies, I think that should be 1998 in Most Wanted. I met
Torino (Emeka Ojukwu) in a bus and to my greatest surprise, he
recognized me, from Ripples, when I was about eight, nine. He asked why I
left the industry. He later invited me to this audition – Most Wanted. I
got a role, a ‘waka-pass’ and that was it.
Your relationship with Kunle Coker
Kunle Coker was actually my boyfriend. But he did not bring me into the industry.
They said he was heartbroken when you deserted him. What led to the collapse of your relationship?
Well, relationships come and go.
Is it true that you dumped him for Fred Amata?
Fred
Amata? I’ve never had anything to do with Fred Amata. In Ripples, I
used to call Fred Amata uncle. So, I don’t see the reason why I should
date Fred Amata. Fred Amata and I are just friends. I don’t have
anything to do with him.
Are you now saying that apart from Kunle Coker, you have not dated any other person in the industry?
I
will not say that and I will not say anything on the contrary either. I
don’t think it is your business. It’s my personal life.
What do you find most attractive in a man?
The
fact that a man will take me for who I am, not for what he hears or
what he believes. I like people who take me for the me they see. That’s
the most important thing. And have regard for me. And trust too.
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men make with women?
Everyone makes mistakes. But to me, I will not tolerate any man who hits women. To me, that’s evil.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I
believe in infatuation at first sight. Love is a very strong feeling.
It does not just come. People think infatuation is being in love. They
are two different things. You don’t know anything yet until you get to
meet the person and you begin to fall in love. Not just physically, but
externally with the person.
Can you recollect the first time you fell in love?
Yes!
Tell us about it.
I
think we met at a show. This was when I was in secondary school and we
shared a lot of things in common – singing. It was a case of two
compatible people who were so much in love with each other and Like I
said, relationships must come and go. You can’t help everything that
happens. Some things just happen for no reason.
What’s your definition of love?
Love
has to be understanding, caring. Love, to me, is being with somebody
for 24 hours without being bored. Love is catching your breath every
time you see whoever you are in love with. Love is friendship, love is
understanding and love is trust.
Do you believe in being faithful in a relationship?
Yeah! I’m very faithful.
Can you date a fan?
I’ve
never dated a fan. And I don’t know if I can. But people come around to
toast as per fans. But it’s a matter of nicely telling them off. There
are different reasons why fans like or love artistes. So, it actually
depends on why my fan loves me. It depends. I don’t think it is
advisable to date a fan. The reason being that people are in love with
what they see on the screen, not the real you.
What’s your idea of a sensual treat?
Quiet time in a place surrounded by nature, water, trees…less talk, more of feelings, let the feelings show instead.
What part of a man’s body do you like most?
A man’s chest, from the belly up.
What part of your own body do you like most?
I guess it’s my eyes. I think I like my eyes.
What’s your greatest wish?
That God continues to bless me. Especially with the right man and a good family.
It’s like you are too eager to get married?
No,
no, no. The thing is just that there comes a time in your life where
everything is going fine. And all you say to yourself is after this,
what next? After everything, you have to get married as far as you are a
woman.
Why have you not furthered your education?
Life
is not the same for everybody. Some people are so lucky, they come out
of secondary school and they go straight to university because they have
the back-up of people and it’s so easy. It looks simple…mine was
different. But I’m determined. Definitely, I’m gonna go back to school. I
wanted to make money, I love my money, I cherish my own money. So, I
will go back when I’ve made enough. But even while I’m there, I won’t
stop working.
What’s the greatest complement that has ever come your way?
My complexion